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𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗼𝗹𝗹𝘆’𝘀 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗿 – this week: You’re Not Ok (feat. Ryan Ronksley) – Patrick Laurin

Written by

Charles Connolly

in

Connolly’s Corner

Welcome all to 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗼𝗹𝗹𝘆’𝘀 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗿, a series of weekly reviews by Charles Connolly – an artist in his own right. Here, Charles delves into the greatest brand new singles brought to you by the best unsigned artists on our electrifying and eclectic set of 𝙉𝙚𝙬 𝘼𝙧𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙩 𝙎𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 playlists.


𝙔𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙉𝙤𝙩 𝙊𝙠 (𝙛𝙚𝙖𝙩. 𝙍𝙮𝙖𝙣 𝙍𝙤𝙣𝙠𝙨𝙡𝙚𝙮) – 𝙋𝙖𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙘𝙠 𝙇𝙖𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣


Charles is getting on with it…


What is comfort? Is it cushions and ice cream? Or how about an evening with the lads? Maybe it’s an idyllic day in the countryside? Could it be that you just like to sit secluded in your car, listening to the best of The Carpenters? Well, comfort can be all these things and more. But there is one thing these all have in common, They are short-lived. It’s not a way of life. You know when someone asks “How are you?”, “How’s it going?”, “How’s life?”, “How’s it hanging?”, “You all right?”, “What’s happening (man)?”, “You good?”, or “What a gwan?”? You habitually and automatically reply something along the lines of Fine, Good, Okay, All right, Alright, Can’t complain, Not too bad, Could be worse, Surviving, You know how it is, Muddling through, Mustn’t grumble, Getting on with it, and so forth. On the surface, these are all pretty positive replies. But the underlying feeling is stagnancy or worse. I’ve always wondered about the expression “Not too bad”. It’s meant to be positive, but if you think about it, it’s overwhelmingly negative. “Things are bad, but not TOO bad”…! Anyway. To be fair, one main reason for an answer like this, is to cut things short and be modest. After all, they only asked out of politeness. They didn’t want a genuine reply! The French have it perfectly: “Ça va?” – “Oui, ça va?” – “Alors”. That’s “How are you?” – “Yes, how are you?” – “So”. They don’t even bother to answer the question, It’s just a case of getting through the mandatory chit-chat as quickly and efficiently as possible.


But why is it like this? Are we that uncomfortable to speak about our own lives? Are we all really that modest? Or are we hiding something? I think it’s a blend of many things. A lot of it will be modesty and not wanting to burden someone else’s life with one’s own. Another reason is time. Ain’t nobody got taam fo’ dat. But also, it is usually not the time or the place to get into the ins and outs of one’s life when they were simply being polite in asking. Another reason is privacy; you’d rather not share your innermost thoughts and feelings with a frivolous wonderer. Perfectly fair enough! Maybe everything’s all just bit too complicated to explain in a line or two… There can be SO many reasons for switching reality for brevity and politesse. But WERE you hiding something? Is your life teaming with struggles and demons? Did this innocent query pinch a nerve? Did you quietly say to yourself “Shaddap shaddap SHADDAAAAPP!!!”. Perhaps the problem is not what is currently happening in your life, but that you are simply not comfortable thinking about it. That you’d rather shove the whole idea into a box in the attic. “Things are fine, OKAY!”. And while things might indeed be “fine”, they could – let’s face it – be finer.


Sometimes it takes an existential crisis of sorts to make you see more clearly. But more often than not, it will be someone very close to you who makes you aware of how things really are, and how things could actually be. Or maybe it’s simply more important to you that THEY’RE happy, and so you have reason to alter the way of things. There tends to be a point in life where one simply starts to accept how things are. To go with the status quo (down down, deeper and down). One just goes with the flow. This can happen at any time in life, but it tends to be brought on by one of two things… Laziness and/or fear. Or “moreover” (I still can’t stand the useful word): fear of change. I mentioned stagnancy earlier… This is one of the biggest problems, I think. When life is bad, you attempt to sort it out. When life is “fine”, there’s no passionate impetus to push and to strive for more. But with this one life of ours, this is exactly what we should do. I don’t mean we should try to take over the world, but we should perhaps try to take over our OWN world. To be in control of it. To be the master of your own life. To grab the proverbial bull by the proverbial horns and wear that T-shirt loud and proud: “Proverbs aren’t all a total waste of time!”. Sorry for sounding like a complete and utter idiom.


When you tell people you’re okay, wouldn’t it be nice to actually believe it? You’re not okay. At least, that’s what this week’s artist/s is/are saying… Please welcome a tiny smattering of Canadians, Patrick Laurin and Ryan Ronksley, with ‘You’re Not Ok’. And don’t worry, they’re not criticising you, they’re helping you. Believe me, you’ll thank them later. Let’s start with Ryan, for his share in this musical soupçon is cub-like compared to the full grown lion that is Patrick. Let me explain. Ryan (a guitar tutor by trade) plays the beautiful electric guitar parts in ‘You’re Not Ok’. While most of you might not be familiar with the unforgettable name, Ryan Ronksley, you almost certainly will be familiar with the artist. Ryan is the Naysh of New Artist Spotlight duo, Broselle & Naysh (insistently labelled ‘broselle + naysh’: all lowercase with a ‘plus’. In being a guitar teacher, that alone is proof that he can truly play. But the real proof comes by way of our ears. Every single thing I have heard him play in any style is flawless, and yet so emotive! Effortlessly moving. It doesn’t seem to matter if it is classical plucks of a Spanish variety, or if he’s ripping up the stage with a Gibson into a Marshall stack! He just breathes guitar. So what better person for Patrick to have on his next record!!


The thing is, it actually started with Patrick sending Ryan a demo. Instead of politely replying “Oui, ça va?”, he played all over it and sent it right back! Alors. What was Patrick’s reaction? “Zut”? Non. He liked it. He loved it. In fact, it made him realise that this was more than just a cool thing atop a cool thing. This needed to be part of the official thing. Patrick needed to make a thing of it. So many things. By this point, the song had already been sitting unfinished for 2 years. This was NOT okay. Ryan’s inspiration was the propulsion Patrick needed; the impetus to get this song finished and released. They are, after all, close friends, and both Canadian. How lovely it must be to have a fellow friend and musician on your doorstep… The thing is (more things), Canada’s a big place. Patrick is in Montreal (the East). Ryan is in Calgary (the West). That’s some 2000 miles away from one another (apparently a 37 hour drive). Okay, so not quite on each other’s doorstep. Even their mother tongue differs! But thankfully, God invented the internet. Something that – whether you like it or not – brings us closer. And so, ‘You’re Not Ok’ was born.


Let’s talk all things Patrick (more things). Other than the electric guitar parts, almost everything else was done by Patrick. I say “almost” because a friend of his played the bass (although Patrick wrote the part). But the acoustic guitar, piano, strings, production and mixing was all Laurin. I have however missed out the two stars of the song. One, is the writing. Writing is everything in a song. A song is literally nothing without having been written. Otherwise it’s a silent orchestra waiting to be handed their sheet music. Playing is skill. Writing is art. Just like that bassline: Patrick wrote it (art); his friend played it (skill). Patrick is the artist, which shines through in the second star of the song: his singing. I think it is probably rather difficult (near impossible) to sing without this much emotion, feeling and credibility, if the words are not written by the singer. Patrick Laurin is one of the most underrated singers on the New Artist Spotlight, and possibly throughout the whole independent music scene!


This beautiful slow waltz lulls you into your favourite comfort zone with the softest guitars and nothing more. As Patrick starts to croon, it is as if he is barely singing. It’s more like your own melodic thought as you stare out of the window in contemplation. His technique is unique in using so little breath and so little power, and yet there is intense warmth and compassion. You know how the softest words at close range can affect you so deeply? This is what Patrick manages in purity. The innocence and trust of a choirboy, with the experience of Paul Simon and Jeff Buckley (Lilac Wine). There are also hints of Matt Hales (Aqualung) and C. Duncan in these vocals. But the main comparison I hear here, is Tom Chaplin from Keane. I have always thought of Tom Chaplin as the politest version of Freddie Mercury; therefore rather good. The similarity between Patrick and Tom is not just in tone, but in melody. The finishing of phrases is so familiar and so fond. So warm and poised. Anyone who sings like this must not have a bad bone in their body. And lyrically…? Well, he suggests for us to be brave. To actively change things, no matter how daunting it may seem. That things will not change on their own. But he does this not in a “come on guys, let’s do this” fashion, but more in a loving fatherly way. A willing persuasion (because you know it makes sense). It’s softer but it means more, because it’s from the heart. Of course, I’m possibly entirely wrong, and the song is about something entirely different. But that’s what I take from it. There is optimism in this sombre comfort.


I’m slightly ashamed that I’ve never reviewed either of these boys before. Patrick’s ‘Stuck’ is something special. As for Ryan, I’m sure he’ll be getting his own review at some point. It’s just sometimes unfortunate that brilliant artists release brilliant songs on the same day as other brilliant artists. I can only choose one a week.


In the words of Sheryl Crow, “A Change Would Do You Good”.


So, how was that…? “Not too bad”.


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66 responses to “𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗼𝗹𝗹𝘆’𝘀 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗿 – this week: You’re Not Ok (feat. Ryan Ronksley) – Patrick Laurin”

  1. Wandile Keefelakae Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Wandile Keefelakae

    The article made me feel good after reading. We all love a duo with an awesome name 🎶✨✨✨

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  2. crashworldband Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    crashworldband

    This song has such a gentle, natural flow very much like nature itself. An intimate vocal with such subtly beautiful dynamics. And the vocal harmonies in the chorus are rather exquisite. In a world where we are very often not, this song is much, much more than ok. It’s a great one! Well done Patrick and thank you Charles.

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  3. Bob Kitt Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Bob Kitt

    Another compelling CC review. Always cool to learn how these NAS collaborations come into being & even more interesting to learn about the songwriting & production behind them. And, yes, I often think of the old “How are you?” question being more rhetorical now than anything. I greatly enjoyed this lovely melancholic sublime thought-provoking new song by Patrick (and Ryan & others).

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  4. Innovaniac Music Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Innovaniac Music

    Patrick wrote it, his friend played it, and I will now listen! can’t wait, thanks for the share and the great article!

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  5. William Lovitt Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    William Lovitt

    I really enjoyed the way Charles brought this review to life with his detailed insight. Patrick Laurin has a very special way of adding magic to his songs, especially with his beautiful vocals. Ryan Ronksley has clearly established himself as an excellent guitarist. Put the two together and you have great music 😎

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  6. Kele Fleming Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Kele Fleming

    Show more comments Kele Fleming Jun 03, 2025 Oooo I love a NAS collab and this one is so great! Love how you’ve brought in a range of musical nods from across the spectrum, Charles. Spot on! Now to my tea….Yes, this Canadian does tea. 😊 Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies Dream Optimist Jun 03, 2025 Love the story. And I am mostly ok, but I like that the song is NOT an “everything’s gonna be all right” song. Because sometimes it isn’t… even when there’s a cool song made in a kooky way like this. Like Reply 2 Likes Show more replies Billy Castillo Jun 03, 2025 This is SO good….the very definition of all star collab. And yeah , that was spot on in regards to Patrick’s singing. Think this is going to find a nice slot in my favorites batch Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies Simone Vignini Jun 03, 2025 In italy we say: Come và? And the reply: Tutto bene/Bene dai!/Potrebbe andare peggio…or also Alla grande! 99% of these ones means: F***k you, I’m simply replying as much polite as I can…😅 Congrats to Patrick and Ryan (and to the bass player too) and thanks to Charles for the interesting article! Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies Steve Peacock Jun 03, 2025 What a collection of indie music greats on one track! Good review as always But listening to the Carpenters is never comfortable 😂 Like Reply 2 Likes Terry Gilbey Jun 03, 2025 I have to admit that I do find it hard to reply with the stock answer of “I’m Ok” as I find it difficult to stray from the truth and have a habit of over-explaining. However, I also hopefully judge when it would be inappropriate to divulge, and try to reign myself in in such situations. I get the references to Tom Chaplin with the vocal style it’s calm and re-assuring and feels like being wrapped in a warm blanket (when you need to be). Like Reply 2 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Terry Gilbey I was happy about the Tom Chaplin reference. I “tried” singing a lot of Keane over the years haha It probably made it’s mark on my brain, somewhere only we know 🤷‍♂️ Like Reply 1 Like Charles Connolly Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Terry Gilbey Looks like you’re one of the few who is honest with their replies. If I ever meet you, I will simply say “Hello”, and smile. Simpler for both. Like Reply paulmccormickmusic Jun 03, 2025 I’m guilty of responding to “How are you?” constantly with “Not too bad thanks!”, I feel like it’s a very British outlook. 😅 This is such a gorgeous track, Patrick’s vocals are immaculate, and I didn’t make the connection with Tom Chaplin but can hear it for sure, spot on observation CC! Love Ryan’s electric guitar contributions here too, it’s a stunning production all around. Edited Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies Jane Marie Jun 03, 2025 A truly beautiful song that had me welling up 11 seconds in…and completely gone to pieces by 16 seconds!😭 I have nothing more to add here…😅❤️ Like Reply 2 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Jane Marie 11 seconds is tough to beat 😅 How can I improve next time? Thanks a lot Jane! I’m glad the song could reach out and grab you like that ❤️ Like Reply 2 Likes Jane Marie Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Patrick Laurin What is the average watch time on an instagram reel? 3 second or something silly like that? In which case, that is your target tears time for the next song!😆 Like Reply 1 Like Terrestrial Animal Jun 03, 2025 The dreaded, “How’s it going? / How you doing?”. I swear I get asked this 100 times a day at work and it’s usually answered with, “I’m here.” , “Not too shabby.” , “Living the dream.” or some other similar variation. Sometimes it blossoms into a full blown conversation, especially when it is someone I haven’t talked to in awhile. But, when it is someone I don’t know at all or have possibly never even seen? It’s usually one of the stock responses. I would wager that the vast majority of people, in fact, are not okay. They’re not good. They’re tired, stressed, depressed and all the other delightful ailments that go a long with life. But, most try to… Show More Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Terrestrial Animal Thanks a lot for appreciating the song. It was great working with Ryan. “Factory” was a great collab as well Like Reply 1 Like Charles Connolly Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Terrestrial Animal Not too shabby!! How could I have forgotten that one!!! Like Reply TrizZzy Rhap Jun 03, 2025 Most people are really not okay. Most of us ain’t okay but we wake up everyday with the will and hope of being okay. it’s just sheer faith Charles. The duo are a perfect match. Two peas in a pod. One complimenting the other to birth something truly wonderful Like Reply 2 Likes Show more replies Roberta Plant Jun 03, 2025 I totally agree with the comparison you made between You’re not ok and Aqualung. I also like the artwork of the song and I think Patrick and Ryan made a good job with this tune! Like Reply 2 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Roberta Plant Very nice of you to say! Thanks for the comment 👌 Like Reply 2 Likes bathroomofthefuture Jun 03, 2025 As an American, is it okay if I start using “musn’t grumble”? Like Reply 1 Like Show more replies Faded Element Jun 03, 2025 Ryan’s solid guitar work and Patrick’s soft vocals showing vulnerability and yet strength is fantastic! 👏 We all tend to roll with the “I’m fine” or “it’s nothing” etc. But I tell u what, I’m OKAY with listening to this great song 👏 Congrats on the new release Patrick and thank u for another insightful review Mr. CC! 😃 Like Reply 2 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Faded Element Much appreciated. I am enjoying the song again now, after having worked on it a bit much haha Like Reply 1 Like Charles Connolly Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Patrick Laurin I think it’s very important to get this bit of enjoyment once its released. Enjoying the result of your hard work gives a reason for all the hard work. Like Reply Fredrik Segerstedt Jun 03, 2025 Yes, I admit , I’m a “not too bad” answer kind of guy, so now it said…Thanks Charles for another great review When it comes to this collaboration between Patrick and Ryan, I just have to say that the result is stunningly beautiful. Perfect melody loop, sublime and delicate almost fragile vocals. Great production. Amazing work boys! Like Reply 2 Likes Show more replies Dreadful Savior Jun 03, 2025 Thank you, Charles, for the heartfelt review of You’re Not Ok! Your thoughtful words beautifully capture the song’s emotional depth and inspiring message. 🖤🥀💀 Like Reply 2 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Dreadful Savior Thanks a lot! Like Reply 1 Like Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 It’s true that “being ok” means different things to different people. It’s such a complicated subject. I need to thank Charles for chosing to review the song. Being a big fan of Keane, I enjoy the comments about the vocals. I’m browsing comments this morning. I’m over the moon reading you guys. Thanks to everyone taking the time to read Connolly’s Corner every week, and thanks for taking the time to appreciate the song ❤️😊 It was truly a joy to work with Ryan, and his contribution brought that finishing touch the song needed. Great job buddy! Like Reply Djentleman 4 Likes Show more replies Kris Townsent Jun 03, 2025 I’m always doing fine when someone asks me. No, of course that’s never (the whole) truth, because each of us has their own burdens to carry. And because that’s the case, I’m always fine 👌. Now please excuse me, because I need to listen to a good song 😉. Like Reply 3 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Kris Townsent Thanks for the comment 😊 Like Reply 1 Like Djentleman Jun 03, 2025 I’m definitely a “oh not too bad” or “not bad, you?” when asked. It’s an auto response at this point. I am so happy to see Patrick get the spotlight! He was my first friend in NAS and we talk almost everyday. His voice is among the elite. And that’s not just in the community, that’s amongst all singers both indie or mainstream. Happy to have contributed the little guitar bits at the start and end. I thought about writing a verse part, but I didn’t want to clash with the stunning vocal of the song. Congrats on the feature Patrick and thank you as always CC! Beaming ear to ear today because I’m happy for my friend. Like Reply 4 Likes Show more replies Tim Consley Jun 03, 2025 I have loved this song since I first heard it. Patrick has that to where there’s never a dud in the bunch. As far as the guitar goes…so precisely in flowing so effortlessly with the rest of the song. Perhaps a smidgen of laurin + naysh? Anyway, such a beautiful track and a mighty fine review! Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Tim Consley Thanks a lot Tim! Glad you like the song 😊 Like Reply 1 Like Valeryan Richards Jun 03, 2025 Yet another beautiful track brought to our attention along with as ever excellent writing ….Thank you Charles – keep ’em coming pleezeee 🎶 Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies Rich Allen Jun 03, 2025 Thank you for sharing this awesome song! Love the guitar work and the vocals are absolutely stunning. It’s so awesome how small our world can be with connection made though NAS. Thanks for the insightful review! Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies CS Taber Jun 03, 2025 Not too bad. This is such a lovely song, and the understated vocal performance carries more emotional weight than the Titanic. Ryan’s guitar is a perfect partner to Patrick’s voice. It is so cool to hear the backstory to the finishing of “You’re Not OK.” Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies unobliterated Jun 03, 2025 Patrick has one of my favourite EVER singing voices – just sublime. And Ryan… well, I am more in awe of Ryan with every new song and every new snippet of his playing that I hear/see. This is TEAM WIN, winning! Congrats, guys. And thank you Charles – another great review👏👏👏 Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies fabjani Jun 03, 2025 This is a beautiful track, and the video is amazing. Thank you Charles for highlighting this song. Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Show more replies brother.poor.my Jun 03, 2025 I never share my true feelings ever … about anything. I could be bleeding out with broken bones and I’d say “I’m alright” if asked. Shove it all done and keep it all for songs. Incredibly unhealthy but … it seems to be working ok for me, I guess. After all, I’m alright. Also, can’t stand the word “moreover”. Furthermore is a bit better… Like Reply 2 Likes Show more replies Dom Piper Jun 03, 2025 ‘How’s it going?’ You ask. Well…. First day back at work after flying in from holiday early morning. Next to no sleep, mountain of work and injecting cafine into my eyeballs to stay awake. Oh sorry, I meant ‘awesome’. “Are you OK Dom?”. Yeah fine thanks Charles but those Patrick and Ryan geezers. They are not ‘OK’. They are nothing short of ‘amazing’. Ryan clearly did a shady deal at a crossroads to play like that (#notjealous) and Patrick’s vocals are to die for (#perhapsabitjealous). This ‘song’ is a triumph. I love it 😍 Like Reply Djentleman 3 Likes Djentleman Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Dom Piper If it’s not a shady deal, is it even a deal worth doing!? Like Reply 3 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Dom Piper I was there when he did his crossroads deal. 100% shady! Thanks Dom, glad you approve! 🙏 Like Reply 2 Likes Charles Connolly Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Dom Piper Did you know they do caffeine in ingestible liquid form these days? Coughee or something. Like Reply 1 Like Chris Franklin Jun 03, 2025 Social conventions are a strange thing. From the “how are you” to “have a nice day”, probably two of the most insincere statements. However, I think they are not entirely bad, at least they are a form of reaching out to one another, even if insincerely. They are the verbal equivalent of a smile to a stranger, a form of acknowledgement, and lord knows, us artists are so desperate for acknowledgement. So, long may social conventions endure, dumb as they are, they are better then nothing. You are so right about Patrick’s voice. It is like hot chocolate on a winters day. I loved his version of “Silent Night”, the perfect voice for that carol. His voice is also perfect for… Show More Like Reply Dom Piper Djentleman 4 Likes Djentleman Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Chris Franklin I hope his rendition of “Silent Night” makes a more prominent appearance this holiday season. I had to give him hell for releasing it so late haha. Like Reply 3 Likes Patrick Laurin Jun 03, 2025 Replying to Chris Franklin Much appreciated! 6/8 songs have a little something I agree 😊Thanks for appreciating Silent night, it went a little under the radar, as Ryan said. I think I released it on december 23rd, or something like that 😅 Like Reply 2 Likes Charles Connolly Jun 04, 2025 Replying to Chris Franklin “How are you?” can be made sincere by putting the emphasis on the ARE. “Have a nice day” can be made sincere by prefacing it with a Do. Love what you said about it being the equivalent of a smile to a stranger. I wondered for a while about whether the song was more 6/8 than 3/4. I eventually opted for 3/4. Like Reply 1 Like Marcus Magnusson Jun 03, 2025 Absolutely beautiful song. Patrick has a marvelous voice indeed. Glad he sent it to Ryan and got the inspiration to finish it! Both Patrick and Ryan are really great guys and if anyone deserves a CC review it’s them! Kind of a surprise that the French have streamlined their chit chat, I’ll take that as fun fact of the day😆 Like Reply Dom Piper Djentleman 5 Likes Show more replies

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  7. Dream Optimist Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Dream Optimist

    Love the story. And I am mostly ok, but I like that the song is NOT an “everything’s gonna be all right” song. Because sometimes it isn’t… even when there’s a cool song made in a kooky way like this.

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  8. Billy Castillo Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Billy Castillo

    This is SO good….the very definition of all star collab. And yeah , that was spot on in regards to Patrick’s singing. Think this is going to find a nice slot in my favorites batch

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  9. Simone Vignini Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Simone Vignini

    In italy we say: Come và? And the reply: Tutto bene/Bene dai!/Potrebbe andare peggio…or also Alla grande! 99% of these ones means: F***k you, I’m simply replying as much polite as I can…😅 Congrats to Patrick and Ryan (and to the bass player too) and thanks to Charles for the interesting article!

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  10. Steve Peacock Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Steve Peacock

    What a collection of indie music greats on one track! Good review as always But listening to the Carpenters is never comfortable 😂

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  11. paulmccormickmusic Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    paulmccormickmusic

    I’m guilty of responding to “How are you?” constantly with “Not too bad thanks!”, I feel like it’s a very British outlook. 😅 This is such a gorgeous track, Patrick’s vocals are immaculate, and I didn’t make the connection with Tom Chaplin but can hear it for sure, spot on observation CC! Love Ryan’s electric guitar contributions here too, it’s a stunning production all around.

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  12. Jane Marie Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Jane Marie

    A truly beautiful song that had me welling up 11 seconds in…and completely gone to pieces by 16 seconds!😭 I have nothing more to add here…😅❤️

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  13. Terrestrial Animal Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Terrestrial Animal

    The dreaded, “How’s it going? / How you doing?”. I swear I get asked this 100 times a day at work and it’s usually answered with, “I’m here.” , “Not too shabby.” , “Living the dream.” or some other similar variation. Sometimes it blossoms into a full blown conversation, especially when it is someone I haven’t talked to in awhile. But, when it is someone I don’t know at all or have possibly never even seen? It’s usually one of the stock responses. I would wager that the vast majority of people, in fact, are not okay. They’re not good. They’re tired, stressed, depressed and all the other delightful ailments that go a long with life. But, most try to… Show More

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  14. TrizZzy Rhap Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    TrizZzy Rhap

    Most people are really not okay. Most of us ain’t okay but we wake up everyday with the will and hope of being okay. it’s just sheer faith Charles. The duo are a perfect match. Two peas in a pod. One complimenting the other to birth something truly wonderful

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  15. Roberta Plant Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Roberta Plant

    I totally agree with the comparison you made between You’re not ok and Aqualung. I also like the artwork of the song and I think Patrick and Ryan made a good job with this tune!

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  16. bathroomofthefuture Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    bathroomofthefuture

    As an American, is it okay if I start using “musn’t grumble”?

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  17. Faded Element Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Faded Element

    Ryan’s solid guitar work and Patrick’s soft vocals showing vulnerability and yet strength is fantastic! 👏 We all tend to roll with the “I’m fine” or “it’s nothing” etc. But I tell u what, I’m OKAY with listening to this great song 👏 Congrats on the new release Patrick and thank u for another insightful review Mr. CC! 😃

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  18. Dreadful Savior Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Dreadful Savior

    Thank you, Charles, for the heartfelt review of You’re Not Ok! Your thoughtful words beautifully capture the song’s emotional depth and inspiring message. 🖤🥀💀

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  19. Kris Townsent Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Kris Townsent

    I’m always doing fine when someone asks me. No, of course that’s never (the whole) truth, because each of us has their own burdens to carry. And because that’s the case, I’m always fine 👌. Now please excuse me, because I need to listen to a good song 😉.

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  20. Djentleman Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Djentleman

    I’m definitely a “oh not too bad” or “not bad, you?” when asked. It’s an auto response at this point. I am so happy to see Patrick get the spotlight! He was my first friend in NAS and we talk almost everyday. His voice is among the elite. And that’s not just in the community, that’s amongst all singers both indie or mainstream. Happy to have contributed the little guitar bits at the start and end. I thought about writing a verse part, but I didn’t want to clash with the stunning vocal of the song. Congrats on the feature Patrick and thank you as always CC! Beaming ear to ear today because I’m happy for my friend.

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  21. Tim Consley Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Tim Consley

    I have loved this song since I first heard it. Patrick has that to where there’s never a dud in the bunch. As far as the guitar goes…so precisely in flowing so effortlessly with the rest of the song. Perhaps a smidgen of laurin + naysh? Anyway, such a beautiful track and a mighty fine review!

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  22. Valeryan Richards Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Valeryan Richards

    Yet another beautiful track brought to our attention along with as ever excellent writing ….Thank you Charles – keep ’em coming pleezeee 🎶

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  23. Rich Allen Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Rich Allen

    Thank you for sharing this awesome song! Love the guitar work and the vocals are absolutely stunning. It’s so awesome how small our world can be with connection made though NAS. Thanks for the insightful review!

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  24. CS Taber Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    CS Taber

    Not too bad. This is such a lovely song, and the understated vocal performance carries more emotional weight than the Titanic. Ryan’s guitar is a perfect partner to Patrick’s voice. It is so cool to hear the backstory to the finishing of “You’re Not OK.”

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  25. unobliterated Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    unobliterated

    Patrick has one of my favourite EVER singing voices – just sublime. And Ryan… well, I am more in awe of Ryan with every new song and every new snippet of his playing that I hear/see. This is TEAM WIN, winning! Congrats, guys. And thank you Charles – another great review👏👏👏

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  26. fabjani Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    fabjani

    This is a beautiful track, and the video is amazing. Thank you Charles for highlighting this song.

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  27. brother.poor.my Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    brother.poor.my

    I never share my true feelings ever … about anything. I could be bleeding out with broken bones and I’d say “I’m alright” if asked. Shove it all done and keep it all for songs. Incredibly unhealthy but … it seems to be working ok for me, I guess. After all, I’m alright. Also, can’t stand the word “moreover”. Furthermore is a bit better…

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  28. Dom Piper Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Dom Piper

    ‘How’s it going?’ You ask. Well…. First day back at work after flying in from holiday early morning. Next to no sleep, mountain of work and injecting cafine into my eyeballs to stay awake. Oh sorry, I meant ‘awesome’. “Are you OK Dom?”. Yeah fine thanks Charles but those Patrick and Ryan geezers. They are not ‘OK’. They are nothing short of ‘amazing’. Ryan clearly did a shady deal at a crossroads to play like that (#notjealous) and Patrick’s vocals are to die for (#perhapsabitjealous). This ‘song’ is a triumph. I love it 😍

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  29. Chris Franklin Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Chris Franklin

    Social conventions are a strange thing. From the “how are you” to “have a nice day”, probably two of the most insincere statements. However, I think they are not entirely bad, at least they are a form of reaching out to one another, even if insincerely. They are the verbal equivalent of a smile to a stranger, a form of acknowledgement, and lord knows, us artists are so desperate for acknowledgement. So, long may social conventions endure, dumb as they are, they are better then nothing. You are so right about Patrick’s voice. It is like hot chocolate on a winters day. I loved his version of “Silent Night”, the perfect voice for that carol. His voice is also perfect for… Show More

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  30. Marcus Magnusson Avatar
    June 3, 2025
    Marcus Magnusson

    Absolutely beautiful song. Patrick has a marvelous voice indeed. Glad he sent it to Ryan and got the inspiration to finish it! Both Patrick and Ryan are really great guys and if anyone deserves a CC review it’s them! Kind of a surprise that the French have streamlined their chit chat, I’ll take that as fun fact of the day😆

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  31. Love Kaminski Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Love Kaminski

    Patrick’s ‘Stuck’ is a masterpiece, for me an absolute highlight on NAS. But ‘You’re not okay’ stands up well, amazing songwriting. Thanks for this great choice and background information. I didn’t know Patrick and Ryan were friends. Ryan’s playing is indeed very tasteful and perfect for this track. I agree with your assessment of Patrick’s unique voice. It’s so sensitive, so delicate, and so beautiful. If I may make one comment: the song could have been a little longer. Thanks for the great review, Charles: every week is a highlight. Songs like this help me to be a little more okay.

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  32. Smokin' Cola Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Smokin’ Cola

    Really love the atmosphere on this tune, definitely a song you can listen to again and again. Great, well, ok choice this week.

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  33. Thesecond Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Thesecond

    Dope writing too(review) CC Cool how the intros are usually very relatable. I also like how they took their time with the song

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  34. rikiabi34 Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    rikiabi34

    A song for ‘it’s ok not to be ok’ and ot can happen to anyone. I loved the overall atmospheare….and…have you noticed the delicateness of the voice….so seamlessly changing register? Very poetic outcome

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  35. Emily Gray Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Emily Gray

    YES! Two of my absolute NAS faves. Patrick’s harmonies always blow me away and this track is absolutely gorgeous!

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  36. ebolutionate Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    ebolutionate

    Thanks Charles for that lengthy but well thought of intro that really resonated with me。 and with things bein shite lately it helped me get some perspective. The song is a great one as well, calmed me a bit from the bloody reality as well. Guitars were lovely gonna be listenin’ more intently to this one.

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  37. DVous Music Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    DVous Music

    Patrick sure cooked up a good one here! So simple, yet so pleasing to listen to. Ryan from B&N does a masterful job on the guitart. The video is good too!

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  38. Charles Connolly Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Charles Connolly

    Looks like you’re one of the few who is honest with their replies. If I ever meet you, I will simply say “Hello”, and smile. Simpler for both.

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  39. Jane Marie Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Jane Marie

    What is the average watch time on an instagram reel? 3 second or something silly like that? In which case, that is your target tears time for the next song!😆

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  40. Djentleman Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Djentleman

    Thanks Kele! Also a tea fan when it gets to -35 in Calgary.

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  41. Patrick Laurin Avatar
    June 4, 2025
    Patrick Laurin

    Thanks for taking the time Kam 😊! Glad you like it, and wanted it to be longer. I’ve had some other people say the same. I’ve developed a great friendship with Ryan through NAS since day 1 🥳

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  42. The Yellow Wallpaper Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    The Yellow Wallpaper

    The harmonies. Might have another listen.

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  43. emj Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    emj

    my granny used to say “better in some parts than in others” She was British, from Manchester. Her dad was George Harrison, and I have the same birthday as Paul. Plus Canadian so I’m OK.

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  44. Bernice Marsala Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    Bernice Marsala

    I’m a longtime fangirl for Patrick’s harmonies 😊 (“Stuck” is one of my favorite songs on NAS). I’m also a fangirl for Ryan’s guitar playing, so to have the two in one song is just…chef’s kiss 🤌🏻 Patrick’s writing is always emotive. This one has a very early-morning-and-it’s-cloudy kind of vibe (likely in part because I listened to it again today, in the early morning while it was cloudy).

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  45. judahsevteen Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    judahsevteen

    Fun fact: did you know that in Turkish the answer to “how are you?” can be just a “thank you”? It has very little to do with the article but since you mentioned the French, the Turks also really don’t want to get stuck on mandatory chit-chat and it can f with the minds of foreigners like me.

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  46. Andrew Flynn Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    Andrew Flynn

    All really valid points made here, I find one of the biggest issues when answering the question “Are you okay” is that it takes vulnerability to sit in ​an authentic response​ and answer that question, and well most of the time​, most people are not comfortable with vulnerability (didnt THEY tell us it’s weak ;)), so either the asker​, or the answerer or in m​any cases both​ will feel awkward, best avoid that at all costs I think we would melt, no? haha.​ However there are hopefully a few close people around us, we can have those deeper conversations with 🙂

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  47. crimson.disc Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    crimson.disc

    Small talk is like the grease and oil of daily life. As I’ve aged I’ve finally been able to participate much more readily and easily. I’ve always dismissed it in preference of more conversations of depth – but you really do pigeon-hole yourself socially if you are like that. Got to be able to do both!

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  48. king Jerris Eleazer okoro Avatar
    June 5, 2025
    king Jerris Eleazer okoro

    You’re not okay sounds very amazing yet enthralling and a satisfying tale.

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  49. sullie.music Avatar
    June 6, 2025
    sullie.music

    What a beautiful song! great pick, lovely writing and playing and a great subject..ask an Irish person how we are and you’ll get Grand, which can mean anything from the world is ending to I’m fine.. we’re just not telling you!😁

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  50. Blister Soul Avatar
    June 6, 2025
    Blister Soul

    therapeutic

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  51. Emma Dupéré Avatar
    June 6, 2025
    Emma Dupéré

    J’aime beaucoup cette chanson, Bravo Patrick et Ryan et comme d’habitude la critique de Charles est super intéressante 😉

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  52. Krauw Avatar
    June 6, 2025
    Krauw

    Charles’ review of ‘You’re Not Ok’ by Patrick Laurin and Ryan Ronksley is a heartfelt exploration of music and emotion—truly moving!

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  53. Shel Scott Avatar
    June 6, 2025
    Shel Scott

    I think I’m lucky that in my friend group and community if you’re not okay, you can say it. Even among strangers I’ll get a “surviving” sometimes. Beautiful song. The guitar work is so beautiful. Beautiful vocal harmonies too.

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  54. Giuseppe Maria Bità Avatar
    June 7, 2025
    Giuseppe Maria Bità

    The canvas on Spotify immediately strikes you about this song. The classical dancer present in those 8 seconds totally expresses the delicacy of this song. Bravissimo

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  55. Vladislav Kubíček Avatar
    June 7, 2025
    Vladislav Kubíček

    In general, I find questions more important than answers. Even the question “How are you?” seems more important to me than the answer to it. The question starts and directs the conversation. Even in a simple message there are hidden questions: “Are you listening to me?”, “How will you react to what I say?” The question expresses interest in the other person. The answer, or the message, is not interested in the other person. The question “How are you” has lost its charm among people because it is often not intended with interest in the other person, but just wants to attract attention “Pay attention to me and listen to what I want to tell you now!”

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  56. Nate Fin Avatar
    June 7, 2025
    Nate Fin

    Another incredible review

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  57. Ron Roper Avatar
    June 7, 2025
    Ron Roper

    Lively review of a nice song!

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  58. steveokwormusic Avatar
    June 7, 2025
    steveokwormusic

    A lovely review! You’re Not Ok is truly beautiful. It’s tempo is soft like feathers and very comforting! Thank you. Thank you Patrick Laurin and Ryan Ronksley.

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  59. DJ Time Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    DJ Time

    I have to be honest. I have never liked music that makes so much noise. This song, on the other hand, is a lullaby and caresses the soul. If I had a small child I would use this song to make it relax. Bravo Patrick

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  60. christian.luxdujour Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    christian.luxdujour

    An enchanting song Patrick and Ryan. Captivating from start to finish 👏 Charles, this one is for you. https://youtu.be/vnHQp2ukDD4?feature=shared Memories Light the corners of my mind Misty water-colored memories Of the way we were…

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  61. Patrik Ahlm Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    Patrik Ahlm

    I absolutely adore this track. It’s gorgeous! And I couldn’t agree more with “writing is everything in a song”. As in crafting the art of… Patrick (nice name btw) knows his stuff, just listen to the rest of his catalogue. Stellar. Both Patrick and Ryan are two very talented, funny and great guys. Thrilled to see, and hear, this song featured in the corner. Listen closely to every nuance and particularly to Patrick’s smooth voice. It’s emotional, expressive and totally pro. Now we only need the music to come out more frequently 😉. We are worth it! Thanks to CC and Patrick (and Ryan)👊 🥰👌

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  62. Nicholas Karl McNally Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    Nicholas Karl McNally

    I felt pretty bad at the start of the review and now I feel awfully good! This song was a delight to listen to. The guitar work is next level and both players compliment each other very well, think ketchup and mustard! Patrick’s voice is quite angelic isn’t it? He’s in Montreal? He might be the nearest NAS artist to me. I’m still learning about where everyone is. Lots of my fellow countrymen are here.

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  63. Last Ravage Opinion Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    Last Ravage Opinion

    Soothing tone to this song beautifully written and performed. I guess that even if we are not OK, we answer rather positively to the usual questions because there is always someone who is worse off than ourself; at the same time human nature doesn’t allow us to be totally content with what we have got or achieved and we always strive for more….

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  64. avresa Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    avresa

    As an indie rock artist myself, I doubt many would understand how I am actually heavily influenced by Aqualung and Keane. In reality, I spent more of the 00’s being immersed in their albums than those from rock artists. Aqualung especially gets very little mention these days. Too little! So you very much had my attention Charles when you mentioned him! I very much agree with those comparisons. I once met someone at the office who didn’t ask “How are you?”. Instead they asked everyone “How are you choosing to be today?”. I found that so unusual at first. But the more I thought about it, the more I appreciated it. I’ll never forget it now! It’s ok to not be ok, just as it’s ok to listen to beautiful, emotive and heartfelt music like ‘You’re Not Ok’. Show Less

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  65. Pablo Bianchi Avatar
    June 8, 2025
    Pablo Bianchi

    Una buena dupla con un hermoso review!!! Felicitaciones!!!

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  66. Charles Connolly Avatar
    June 10, 2025
    Charles Connolly

    Ha! Loved those adverts. And that song too.

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